John 13 31-35
April 24, 2016
There is a history of my
seminary,
Philadelphia,
playing
Gettysburg
Seminary and eventually
other
seminaries in a flag football game.
Each team
would get t shirts for the game.
Philadelphia got them in purple
with white writing.
And when we
got there we realized,
another team
had the same exact color of tee shirt.
It was a
very confusing game.
We couldn’t
identify who was who.
Likewise, it’s hard to identify
Christians in the world.
We don’t
wear particular clothes, or eat certain foods,
We don’t
only interact with certain people,
We aren’t
really commanded to do much that is outwardly different.
Christians
basically blend in with everyone else.
I think
we’re meant to do just that.
So how do we
tell ourselves from others?
Jesus tells his disciples that we
will be known by our love.
By the way
we love one another.
So we won’t
be known for
or wearing a
cross around our necks
or praying
before meals.
We will be
known for our love.
That will
make us distinct.
Love one another as I have loved
you, Jesus said.
This is what
will make us famous and well know.
This is what
people will talk about.
Jesus gave this command during
his last supper.
Right before
this, he told them that one of his disciples was going to betray him.
And right
after this he tells Peter that he would deny even knowing him.
It must have
been a very painful meal for Jesus in many ways.
And yet in
this same dinner, he washes the feet of the disciples.
An act of
humble servitude to his students and followers
and
betrayers and deniers.
That is the kind of love that
Jesus is talking about
The self
sacrificing, self denying kind of love.
The kind of
love that isn’t stopped by pride
the kind of
love that includes all, even those not worthy of it
Jesus tells
the disciples to love one another,
He addresses
this to the disciples at a private meal
and it could
be understood as an internal kind of thing,
just to
share inside our churches
and between
disciples and among members.
But Jesus is
talking about the kind of love that crosses
boundaries,
it doesn’t make more boundaries.
This is
Jesus last request, this is Jesus new commandment.
both inside
and out.
Sometimes
the church is better known for
it’s
infighting and squabbling with one another.
What gets in
the news are
denominational
spats and theological wrangling.
And sometimes
the church is known better for it’s
hate and
admonition of those who are different.
But most
Christians are just trying our best to
take Jesus
words seriously and love one another
and the
people around us.
If you read anything about the
very beginning
of the
church, the startling thing is how fast it grew.
Christianity
wasn’t very organized,
it wasn’t a
unified institution.
Worshipping Jesus was not part of the main stream,
Worshipping Jesus was not part of the main stream,
it was not
the government authorized religion,
it was sometimes
dangerous for most people to be a part of it.
But even
under oppression and threats, the church grew big and fast.
And many scholars have said that the reason is
because it
was the different way that
Christians
treated each other.
At the time, the world was
arranged in
strict
hierarchy that was supported by Roman religion.
The rich
were higher than the poor,
the men were
higher than the women,
the masters
were higher than the slaves
It was all
ordained by the gods,
And people acted
and were treated accordingly.
But in Christians tried to treat
everyone the same.
Everyone got the same respect and dignity,
Everyone got the same respect and dignity,
everyone was
given responsibilities,
women and
slaves were leaders.
everyone was
treated with the same kind of love as everyone else.
And they showed that love to
others too.
they fed the
poor with the collection they got during church.
They gave
food and company to those who were imprisoned.
They visited
the sick and helped them too.
They treated
the forgotten people with dignity and kindness.
They shared
their love inside the community and outside.
Their growth wasn’t about worship
services
or music or
preaching or children’s programs.
It was what
happened when they got outside
of that
worship service that made the difference.
It was what
happened the rest of the week
that
inspired others.
The things that define us as
Christians
aren’t the
things we do in here,
it’s the
things we do out there.
Tony Campolo the popular
Methodist pastor
tells a
wonderful story.
Before he
was a pastor, he was a sociologist.
And he was
presenting a paper in Honolulu.
He flew
there from the East Coast and it was time to go to sleep,
but he
couldn’t because of the jet lag.
So was
sitting in a coffee shop at about 3:30am.
it was the
only place open and it was very sleazy.
There were a few people in the
place
and a group
of prostitutes came in.
He was
sitting at the counter and they all
sat around
him.
He was basically in the middle of
the conversation
and the one
who’s name was Agnes said that it
was her
birthday tomorrow.
She was
going to be 39.
One of her
friends said,
“What do you
want me to do, throw you a party?”
She said,
"Why do you have to be so
mean? I was just telling you, that's all.
Why do you have to put me down?
I was just telling you it was my
birthday.
I don't want anything from you.
I mean, why should you give me a
birthday party?
I've never had a birthday party
in my whole life.
Why should I have one now?"
After she left the place with her
friend,
Tony asked
the owner of the place
if she was
in there every night
and he said yes,
right at 3:30 they always came in.
Tony suggested to the owner that
maybe they could throw
her a party
since it was her birthday.
The owner
thought it was a great idea
and got his
wife who was the cook involved.
Agnes was a
nice person and he would love to be a part.
Tony said he
would get the decorations and even bring a cake.
The owner
said that he would make the cake.
The next night they decorated the
place and
by 3:15, the
place was full of prostitutes
At 3:30
Agnes and her friends came in.
Everyone
yelled out surprise and sang Happy Birthday.
She looked
completely flabbergasted.
And then the owner of the diner gave her the cake
it said
“Happy Birthday Agnes” on it
it had
candles on it.
She was
crying at the sight of it.
Everyone
told her to blow out the candles.
She blew out
the candles
and then the
owner gave her a knife
and told her
to cut the cake.
She said to the owner,
“Harry, if it’s all right with you,
“Harry, if it’s all right with you,
I don’t want
to cut the cake right now.”
He told her
it was okay.
She said,
“Is it okay if we just keep the cake a little while,
I just live
a couple of doors down, would it be okay
if I just
took the cake to my apartment and I’ll be back?”
She left the diner holding the cake like the Holy Grail.
There was
kind of a stunned silence at this point.
and no one
knew what to do
So, Tony
suggested that they pray.
So they did.
He said, “looking back on it now,
it seems more than strange for a sociologist to be leading a prayer meeting
with a bunch of prostitutes in a diner in Honolulu at 3:30 in the morning.
But then it just
felt like the right thing to do."
When he finished, Harry leaned
over the counter
and with a
trace of hostility in his voice, he said,
"Hey!
You never told me you were a preacher.
What kind of
church do you belong to?"
In one of
those moments when just the right words came,
I answered, "I belong to a
church that throws birthday parties for
prostitutes
at 3:30 in the morning."
Harry waited a moment and then
almost sneered as he answered,
"No you
don't. There's no church like that.
If there was,
I'd join it. I'd join a church like that!"
Jesus said,
“I give you a new
commandment, that you love one another.
Just as I have
loved you, you also should love one another.
By this everyone
will know that you are my disciples,
if you have love
for one another.”
Christ is alive and with us
today.
Let us be
the church that is gathered around that miracle.
Let us be
the ones who are known by our love.